Though a lot of people know that our energy attracts our circumstances, it isn’t always easy to see how we block positive changes and why we’d continue to attract unhealthy situations.

If you find that you are still surrounded by an environment that has lots of flaws in it, it’s time to do a bit of soul searching. Are you on some level drawn to addictive behavours or people who embody that lifestyle? Try to sit with this question for a while.

Do you find that there is a self-destructive streak that you fall into? Does your social life involves people that sabotage themselves? What we draw into our lives can be due to our fears, background and habits. To attract a different type of lifestyle or environment, the old needs to be uprooted. Read the rest of this entry »

“He said he’d be at the game and never showed up.” ” She left out the milk again and now it’s all spoiled.” “They didn’t call back so we left without them and now they are mad.”

Just like a ball rolls down hill due to gravity , we tend to blame others rather than look at ourselves. After all, he didn’t call back or she did forget to do what she said she’d do etc etc. Still, this leaves out other factors such as whether or not our reaction is justified. Could our original demands have been unreasonable or can we also be partially (or entirely) at fault. Read the rest of this entry »

When was the last time you took a day off from work to take care of yourself? Taking a personal day can be very rejuvenating for your spirit and enable you to be in a less crowded environment to relax than during the weekend bustle when everyone is off. It’s easier to not deal with lines when you want a day for yourself by using a week day.

Make a list of things you’ve been wanting to do for a long time . Don’t put any filter on your mind but just let it run wild . It can be driving to an apple orchard to pick a bucket of apples, spending the whole day at the hair salon getting highlights and the works, taking out the fishing rod and driving to a remote location or calling an old college buddy to go snorkeling like the old days. Read the rest of this entry »

Are the specific situations that seem to come to you over and over again undesirable? Do you wonder why this is happening? Our mindset is very powerful. If there is some feeling inside of you that you don’t deserve happiness or success, then this can manifest itself in terms of non-abundance with money, relationship joy and other areas of your life.

You may find you keep getting old, used cars and rent run down apartments etc. This mentality can have a lot to do with your own view of yourself as well as your outlook about money. It’s helpful to try to examine your own views. Is having money wrong
or being too materialistic? Are you trying to not draw attention to yourself by having little or nothing? Is there an embarrasment about success? Read the rest of this entry »